Self-Assessments
Resources for growth
After my first failed relationship, I began to probe what went wrong. I was shocked by what I learned.
There were whole books on what I was struggling with. I felt simultaneously scared and excited. Who would I be if changed? But if I didn’t, how could I expect a different result?
I worked hard. God guided my steps and brought resources to help me. And over the years, I saw a slow but steady improvement in my quality of life and relationships.
This was not a fast process. It would be 12 more years before I got married. But it was an empowering one.
Looking back, there is no way I would have arrived at a healthy relationship without learning more about my past and how it was shaping my present. If you are interested in growing in self-knowledge, we invite you to use resources like these or the ones found on our Recommended Reading page.
Sample Assessments
Orphan Spirit Test
Do you tend to view yourself more as a son/daughter or as an orphan?