“I’m dating someone who has been honest with me about his past sexual struggles. He even meets with clergy from our church for accountability and mentoring. He’s willing to answer my questions and doesn’t get defensive. All of that encourages me. I’m still concerned, though, because he’s struggled kind of recently (within the past six months) before we started dating. Also, his struggle has included not just viewing pornography but also participating in an online relationship and chatrooms. Am I right to be concerned about these things? Should I give him grace? After all, he is being transparent with me. Thanks for your help.”