“I have finally found a Christian to date with whom I have a lot in common. Things are going well, and I definitely don’t want to be too picky. However, we come from different theological backgrounds. He is a cessationist (he believes the supernatural gifts of the Holy Spirit have ceased), while I have a charismatic background and believe they are still operational today. I’m wondering if this difference in our views rises to the level of being a dealbreaker or is it something we’ll just learn to live with if we end up getting married?”